It was about 8 PM

My son came to me and said “I have asked him but he said not possible

Here is the back story…

My son wants to do something and he is short of Rs 7,000…

I have advised him to take the help of one of our close relative …

But the response was negative as told above…

As a consequence…

I am hurt and deeply emotional…

I have remembered the days when I was officer in the government service and the kind of response we get from our family members.

I understand…

People will pay attention and respect when you are rich or powerful. If you are not rich or powerful people tend to ignore you…

That is the psyche of human beings…

These are the thoughts and emotions I have gone through for couple of minutes…

I don’t want to keep quite…

I therefore sent the following message to the person whom my son asked the help…

“Thank you for not considering my son’s request for help…”

Let me explain why I thanked him…

During last five years I have been subjected to such incidents and somehow I have managed to keep my morale and energies up.

But when it comes to teenagers these things matter a lot… It will affect their self-worth and diminish their energies…

I don’t want this happen to my sons any more and therefore I have decided to make them millionaires in 2019.

Without this incident I may not focus my attention on my children. This person really helps me to shift my focus on my children.

And that is why I have thanked him…

I have no ill feeling against that person because he helped us in the past…

The above incident might be the trigger.

But here are the 5 reasons why I set this goal and making it public today?

  • 1. To survive
  • 2. To demonstrate our self worth
  • 3. To show the doubters that it is possible
  • 4. To fully apply 10 years of my experience
  • 5. To fully focus all our energies on the goal

Let me explain each of these five reasons hereunder;

1. To survive:

1. To survive:

The fundamental instinct of any human being is to survive

You see…

With the intention of making our business successful we have sold away all our properties…

We have taken loans from friends and family members. But we have not repaid the loans because of our situation.

Therefore…

We have the responsibility of clearing of all these debts…

My exact problem is this…

When I have sufficient funds and loan opportunities I have no clarity in the business and therefore lost everything.

But today I have absolute clarity, knowledge and experience about what to do in the business but I have no investment…

Lack of investments or loan opportunities coupled with cash flow problems making our survival difficult…

I therefore set this goal to become successful and also make my sons successful…

2. To demonstrate our self worth

2. To demonstrate our self worth

I am absolutely confident about my self-worth and my son’s self-worth. But everyone doubts us… They may not say it directly but based on their behaviors and body language I can certainly understand that.

In view of the above we have responsibility to demonstrate our self-worth and prove that their perception is wrong…

3. To show the doubters that the goal is achievable

3. To show the doubters that the goal is achievable

Majority people believe that getting Govt or corporate Job is the safest

Also…

Doing business is risky and one shouldn’t venture into it…

This may be true 10 or 15 years back…

But this is not true anymore…

Here is today’s reality…

Starting a business is the best strategy…Internet technology made this possible…

In the past starting a business is a very big thing and only few rich people can afford this. But today anyone with a laptop and Internet connection start the business and make a good living.

My youngest son rejected a job in a multinational company and started his business and less than 12 months earning more than the group one officer. I want write his story in another blog post…[1]

My eldest son while preparing for civil services started his own blog getting inspiration from his brother’s success….[2]

E-commerce is growing and anyone can surf this trend …Alison Prince after not making ends meet as a teacher decided to ecom business and went on to build 4 multi-million dollar businesses selling products online. She also taught her daughters the techniques she learned and they are making 6 figure incomes in a less than a year time. [3]

Kaelin Poulin (The LadyBoss) has built a paid community of over 100,000+ women. She teaches them how to lose weight. Kaelin has grown her business to over 8-figures by selling various products to her members..[4]

If you want to publish a book there is no need for you to go for a publisher and wait for their approval or get rejected…Today you can write your book and publish it in amazon without any hassle.

Jesse is an investor and international speaker. He also suffered many up and downs in his life. Jesse written, edited and published a book titled “Hustle” in Just 7 days to tide over his chronic cash tight situation… Hustle is best seller in 3 categories…[5]

I have also written a book titled “Mystic body and magic cycle” and put it for sales in my fertility blog. It already started making sales. Now I am working on sending traffic to this sales page from my other blog posts to increase the sales. As per my plan in another 10 days we may achieve positive cash flow with its sales… [6]

In short what I want to say is this…

Every one of us can take the advantage of digitalization and internet technology and make a fortune…

And that is why I set this ambitious goal to show doubters that it is possible…

4. To fully apply 10 years of my experience

4. To fully apply 10 years of my experience

Many people think that I am failed or thinking that I may not succeed because 10 years is a long period.

That is their perspective…

But here is my perspective…

I have 10 years of experience and it is the time to leverage it fully…

It is a matter of different perspectives…

I will explain this with my own experience…

I have achieved Group-I service on my fourth attempt…

It took me nearly 10 years to be successful with Group-1 services…

People remain doubtful for 10 years until they saw my success….

But I remain confident and keep on trying until I achieve Group-1 success…

Bottom line…

Doubtful people are STAGNANT…

Transforming people KEEP MOVING…

That is the difference between success and failure…

Every successful person know this truth…

I therefore set the goal of making my sons millionaires so that I can apply my 10 years of experience…

5. To fully focus all our energies on the goal

To fully focus all our energies on the goal

I don’t want our hardships dip our energies…

I don’t want the negativity sap our morale…

I don’t want to waste my 10 years of INCREDIBLE EXPERIENCE…

It is therefore very important to set an ambitious goal and stick to it so that we can channelize all our energies in a positive way…

This is the only way to counteract the negative forces.

Last but not least…

My life’s mission is to make 1,00,000 Dalits as online Business men… This is clearly stated in my other blog post titled”4 Jagan Reddy Masculine Traits Every Man Should Have ” [8]

In view of the above making my sons successful in 2019 is crucial to me as it gives me courage to act on my life’s mission from 2020 onwards…

I know!

Many people who read this blog post still doubts or laughs

I understand them…

But I have determined to achieve this goal in 2019 to clear their doubts.

The Real Reason Why I am Making it Public

Look!

I can set the goal and work on it…

There is no need of making it public…

The real reason I am making it public it is to challenge myself.

When I make it public I am answerable to the people…

I can’t waste my time on trivial matters forgetting my goal…

The goal I set is not just emotional

It is a conscious intent to become better version of myself

I want this story to be inspirational to everyone who are willing grow beyond their comfort zones…

In view of the above…

I want to chronicle the progress of this journey  on 30th of every month in 2019 in this blog…

So there will be 12 reports starting from this month…

The 12th report will be on 30th december 2019…On that day you will know whether I have achieved my goal or not…

You can watch how this serious (funny) story unfolds….

So you have an opportunity to witness how the magic of self value unleash its power and destroy the self doubt.

I end this blog post with one of my favorite quotations

Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.” – ― Norman Vincent Peale

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