What to Do When You Have Overwhelming Anxiety?

3 days back one of my old friends called me…

Asked to pay the amount… (He has given me small amount a few months back)

I explained to him the situation and when I will pay the amount…

He started heckling me with high pitch tone…

I kept quite listening to him… (Because I have taken a vow not to react to any person no matter the provocation)

He ridiculed me…

He undermined me…

He thwarted telling anything about my past…

Any way…

Call ended with peaceful tone finally…

At the time of receiving phone call I am working on my sales copy for my latest book…

After phone conversation ended I couldn’t focus on my work…

I could clearly see my heart is banging than normal pace…

As I couldn’t restore calm I want to listen to my heart…

This is the practice I always do whenever anxiety overtakes me…

I started to speak to my heart…

Why are you so disturbed?

Just because he lost his cool you need not ashamed of yourself…

You have given up the big job to live a clean and honest life…

You have given up the job to do big things in life…

You have given up the job to influence the people…

You have given up the job to empower the dalits…

All these are great things and you should be proud of yourself….

Being born in dalit caste, lived in dalit wadas, studied in telugu medium government schools… you have achieved a lot so far…

This is not a small thing…

What you are aiming for is very big…

You should love yourself…

And gradually my anxiety calm down and I reached to a very peaceful and calm state…

Then I resumed my work again…

While doing this mental exercise (you can call it meditation also) I have drawn the following graphic to keep myself energetic and keep going…Unmindful of the external situations…

Everytime I see this graphic my energy levels will grow…

Staying in high energy levels is paramount to keep the mission going…(perticlularly more so when you are on the verge of tremendous success)

In view of the above I thought it better to share the graphic to the world so that it may motivate the people who are overwhelmed with anxiety and striving do big things in life…

Here is the graphic…

What to Do When You Have Overwhelming Anxiety

You can give your comments below…

The Reason Why I Have Decided To Make My Two Sons Millionaires In 2019

It was about 8 PM

My son came to me and said “I have asked him but he said not possible

Here is the back story…

My son wants to do something and he is short of Rs 7,000…

I have advised him to take the help of one of our close relative …

But the response was negative as told above…

As a consequence…

I am hurt and deeply emotional…

I have remembered the days when I was officer in the government service and the kind of response we get from our family members.

I understand…

People will pay attention and respect when you are rich or powerful. If you are not rich or powerful people tend to ignore you…

That is the psyche of human beings…

These are the thoughts and emotions I have gone through for couple of minutes…

I don’t want to keep quite…

I therefore sent the following message to the person whom my son asked the help…

“Thank you for not considering my son’s request for help…”

Let me explain why I thanked him…

During last five years I have been subjected to such incidents and somehow I have managed to keep my morale and energies up.

But when it comes to teenagers these things matter a lot… It will affect their self-worth and diminish their energies…

I don’t want this happen to my sons any more and therefore I have decided to make them millionaires in 2019.

Without this incident I may not focus my attention on my children. This person really helps me to shift my focus on my children.

And that is why I have thanked him…

I have no ill feeling against that person because he helped us in the past…

The above incident might be the trigger.

But here are the 5 reasons why I set this goal and making it public today?

  • 1. To survive
  • 2. To demonstrate our self worth
  • 3. To show the doubters that it is possible
  • 4. To fully apply 10 years of my experience
  • 5. To fully focus all our energies on the goal

Let me explain each of these five reasons hereunder;

1. To survive:

1. To survive:

The fundamental instinct of any human being is to survive

You see…

With the intention of making our business successful we have sold away all our properties…

We have taken loans from friends and family members. But we have not repaid the loans because of our situation.

Therefore…

We have the responsibility of clearing of all these debts…

My exact problem is this…

When I have sufficient funds and loan opportunities I have no clarity in the business and therefore lost everything.

But today I have absolute clarity, knowledge and experience about what to do in the business but I have no investment…

Lack of investments or loan opportunities coupled with cash flow problems making our survival difficult…

I therefore set this goal to become successful and also make my sons successful…

2. To demonstrate our self worth

2. To demonstrate our self worth

I am absolutely confident about my self-worth and my son’s self-worth. But everyone doubts us… They may not say it directly but based on their behaviors and body language I can certainly understand that.

In view of the above we have responsibility to demonstrate our self-worth and prove that their perception is wrong…

3. To show the doubters that the goal is achievable

3. To show the doubters that the goal is achievable

Majority people believe that getting Govt or corporate Job is the safest

Also…

Doing business is risky and one shouldn’t venture into it…

This may be true 10 or 15 years back…

But this is not true anymore…

Here is today’s reality…

Starting a business is the best strategy…Internet technology made this possible…

In the past starting a business is a very big thing and only few rich people can afford this. But today anyone with a laptop and Internet connection start the business and make a good living.

My youngest son rejected a job in a multinational company and started his business and less than 12 months earning more than the group one officer. I want write his story in another blog post…[1]

My eldest son while preparing for civil services started his own blog getting inspiration from his brother’s success….[2]

E-commerce is growing and anyone can surf this trend …Alison Prince after not making ends meet as a teacher decided to ecom business and went on to build 4 multi-million dollar businesses selling products online. She also taught her daughters the techniques she learned and they are making 6 figure incomes in a less than a year time. [3]

Kaelin Poulin (The LadyBoss) has built a paid community of over 100,000+ women. She teaches them how to lose weight. Kaelin has grown her business to over 8-figures by selling various products to her members..[4]

If you want to publish a book there is no need for you to go for a publisher and wait for their approval or get rejected…Today you can write your book and publish it in amazon without any hassle.

Jesse is an investor and international speaker. He also suffered many up and downs in his life. Jesse written, edited and published a book titled “Hustle” in Just 7 days to tide over his chronic cash tight situation… Hustle is best seller in 3 categories…[5]

I have also written a book titled “Mystic body and magic cycle” and put it for sales in my fertility blog. It already started making sales. Now I am working on sending traffic to this sales page from my other blog posts to increase the sales. As per my plan in another 10 days we may achieve positive cash flow with its sales… [6]

In short what I want to say is this…

Every one of us can take the advantage of digitalization and internet technology and make a fortune…

And that is why I set this ambitious goal to show doubters that it is possible…

4. To fully apply 10 years of my experience

4. To fully apply 10 years of my experience

Many people think that I am failed or thinking that I may not succeed because 10 years is a long period.

That is their perspective…

But here is my perspective…

I have 10 years of experience and it is the time to leverage it fully…

It is a matter of different perspectives…

I will explain this with my own experience…

I have achieved Group-I service on my fourth attempt…

It took me nearly 10 years to be successful with Group-1 services…

People remain doubtful for 10 years until they saw my success….

But I remain confident and keep on trying until I achieve Group-1 success…

Bottom line…

Doubtful people are STAGNANT…

Transforming people KEEP MOVING…

That is the difference between success and failure…

Every successful person know this truth…

I therefore set the goal of making my sons millionaires so that I can apply my 10 years of experience…

5. To fully focus all our energies on the goal

To fully focus all our energies on the goal

I don’t want our hardships dip our energies…

I don’t want the negativity sap our morale…

I don’t want to waste my 10 years of INCREDIBLE EXPERIENCE…

It is therefore very important to set an ambitious goal and stick to it so that we can channelize all our energies in a positive way…

This is the only way to counteract the negative forces.

Last but not least…

My life’s mission is to make 1,00,000 Dalits as online Business men… This is clearly stated in my other blog post titled”4 Jagan Reddy Masculine Traits Every Man Should Have ” [8]

In view of the above making my sons successful in 2019 is crucial to me as it gives me courage to act on my life’s mission from 2020 onwards…

I know!

Many people who read this blog post still doubts or laughs

I understand them…

But I have determined to achieve this goal in 2019 to clear their doubts.

The Real Reason Why I am Making it Public

Look!

I can set the goal and work on it…

There is no need of making it public…

The real reason I am making it public it is to challenge myself.

When I make it public I am answerable to the people…

I can’t waste my time on trivial matters forgetting my goal…

The goal I set is not just emotional

It is a conscious intent to become better version of myself

I want this story to be inspirational to everyone who are willing grow beyond their comfort zones…

In view of the above…

I want to chronicle the progress of this journey  on 30th of every month in 2019 in this blog…

So there will be 12 reports starting from this month…

The 12th report will be on 30th december 2019…On that day you will know whether I have achieved my goal or not…

You can watch how this serious (funny) story unfolds….

So you have an opportunity to witness how the magic of self value unleash its power and destroy the self doubt.

I end this blog post with one of my favorite quotations

Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.” – ― Norman Vincent Peale

If you want to encourage me say best of luck in the comment box…

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4 Jagan Reddy Masculine Traits Every Man Should Have

First and foremost I want you to be clear that I am not the member of YSR party or the follower of jagan mohan reddy.

So you can read this article with open mind. In fact this is not an article about jagan mohan reddy. This article is about four masculine traits every man should have…

I will assure you that this article is the most important article you have ever read in your life so far. I am confident that this article is going to transform your life if you can embrace the four masculine traits that I am about to discuss in this article…

See…

This article is written to empower the man and therefore it is of no use to the women. if you’re a woman accidentally come to this article you can skip this article right away…

Very important…

This article is lengthy. If you are hurry or busy you read this article when you are leisure. But don’t miss this article.

Look

After carefully observing and deconstructing the life of Jagan mohan Reddy during last 10 years I have distilled these 4 masculine traits…

Realize this….

  • Every politician who wants to win election should have these 4 traits
  • Every bureaucrat who wants to be truly successful in their career should have these 4 traits
  • Every entrepreneur who wants win the hearts of customers should have these 4 traits
  • Every young man aspiring to be successful or dating with a woman should have these 4 traits…

Simply…

Every Man should have these 4 masculine traits….

Because…

  • These 4 traits give you mental stability
  • These 4 traits make you successful
  • These 4 traits make you attractive to women
  • These 4 traits make you admirable to the fellow men
  • These 4 traits influence the people and they become your followers…
  • These 4 traits command respect from the society…

Before we discuss about these four masculine traits I must tell you there is an interesting parallel between jagan reddy and my life…

Parallel between Jagan Reddy and Myself

A bird eye view of Jagan Reddy’s life and my Life during last 10 years

Note: Here my intention is not to compare myself with Jagan mohan reddy. My only intention is to tell you the fact that success doesn’t come overnight …

Take a look at the following events….

Jagan mohan reddy after death of his father YS rajashekar reddy started his odarpu yatra in 2010…. After quitting government service I have started Praveenben online marketing in 2010…(by the way when I quit the government service I was working as Asst Commissioner of commercial taxes and also holding full additional charge of appellate deputy commissioner Visakhapatnam division Andhra Pradesh State….You can read my bio here>>>)

Jagan mohan reddy started his YSR party in 2011….I have floated a private limited company Koben marketing solutions in 2011…

Jagan mohan reddy was arrested by the CBI in 2012 in disproportionate assets case…my business which is steadily growing suddenly falls down because of Google’s algorithm change 2013…

Jagan mohan reddy faced electoral defeat against the TDP Party in 2014… During 2014 and 2015 I have sold all my assets to sustain my company….

Jagan mohan reddy started praja sankalpa yatra in 2017 against the rule of Chandrababu Naidu…. I have started focusing on one Project during 2017 and 2018 which started providing sustenance to our family….

Going by the present trends Jagan mohan reddy may likely to become Chief Minister of Andhra Pradesh in 2019….I may likely to be fully successful in my entrepreneurial efforts in 2019….

Anyway that is how I am seeing the life….

You may not feel that way and that is fine.

Because that is not the purpose of article. The purpose of article is to empower every man.

Now Let me get back to our main topic….

Our main topic for this article is 4 masculine traits every man should have….

Read the above sentence once again carefully…

What does it mean when I say “every man should have

What it means is this…

Right now many men don’t have these masculine traits…

The above statement may offend many men…. but this is the truth…

Shocking Secrets most men don’t know yet

Shocking Secrets most men don't know yet

What I’m about to reveal may shock every man…

I’m sure that you might never realize this truth so far…

Without acknowledging and realizing this truth you may not appreciate the four masculine traits I’m about to reveal in this article…

Look!

Had you ever asked these questions to yourself…

  • Why I fear to set a big goal in my life?
  • Why I could not focus on my work?
  • Why I easily distracted?
  • Why I always in the state of anxiety and frustration?
  • Why I am not fully happy with my life?
  • Why chronic diseases affecting me?

The answer to all the above questions is this…

You’re not man enough…

You’re not masculine enough…

Perhaps you have never heard or never think like this so far in your life….

That is why… 

Let me prove this with scientific evidences so that you can’t ignore this truth anymore….

Feminisation of men: Facts & Proofs

Here are the facts and scientific studies that prove that all the men are being feminized by the society without their knowledge. That is why man is not feeling masculine enough. This is the root cause of man’s all the problems….

Declining testosterone levels a sign of feminisation of men…

Man is not feeling masculine enough. Only 2% of young men feel completely masculine (compared to 56% of over 65s) [1]

Declining testosterone levels in men …Testosterone concentrations dropped about 1.2% per year, or about 17% overall, from 1987 to 2004. The downward trend was seen in both the population and in individuals over time.  [2, 3]

Testosterone should not decline in healthy men

If you believe that TESTOSTERONE should decrease as you age, you have been taught a falsehood. If you’re healthy, it should REMAIN STUBBORNLY CONSTANT, even INTO YOUR ELDERLY YEARS. [4]

Evidence of feminization of men across the world

British men feel less masculine than American men  [5]

South Korea is one of the largest consumers of men’s skin care products. South Korea has now been dubbed “the male makeup capital of the world”[6]

Chinese men are spending more time and money on beauty… [7]

Japan’s young men choose cosmetics over careers…[8]

Feminization of men and its Effects on men’s Health 

Soaring number of boys are being born with genital disorders. INFERTILITY and CANCER OF THE TESTES are also on the rise. Testicular cancer is now the most common cancer in young men. [9]

Here are the some of the other health effects of low testosterone levels 

  • Your sex drive disappears.
  • Your semen quantity falls.
  • Your muscles shrink
  • Your belly grows.
  • Your memory falters.
  • Your bones weaken.
  • Your hair will fall.
  • Your heart is at risk.
  • Your body fat increases.
  • Your energy levels dips.
  • And many more effects [10]

7 Ways Men are being feminized

7 Ways Men are being feminized

1. Education:

Let’s take a look at our school system. Teachers are overwhelmingly women. At an early age, boys in Kindergarten are indoctrinated to become like girls. Stepping outside these feminine authority structure will win boys “time out” or a trip to the principal’s office. Competition is replaced by a more politically correct attitude of “it’s not important to win as long as you gave it your all”. [11]

2. Parenting:

American boys are increasingly raised by single women and taught almost only by female teachers. In addition, they are often taught to be ashamed of their masculine natures and to reject traditional masculine virtues. [12]

They are being raised to be BETA Males, wussies, and weak, feminized “boys!” – which results in them not knowing how to interact with women or attract them, how to have successful relationships, and they lack ambition & life purpose. And sadly, they are often hooked on porn and video games. [13]

3. Television:

Male feminization on television has slowly be conditioned into the psyche of men. This has dramatically altered behavior patterns.

If you observe all the entertainment programme in television you can clearly see how men are being virtually castrated.

The media is a insidious accomplice – With all the #MeToo and #TimesUp movements, the message is clear:“Women are are the future,” women are inherently good and oppressed, and need to be empowered and Males are bad, toxic, and need to put their penises away and “check their privilege.” [14]

4. Cosmetics:

Phthalates are a group of chemicals used to make plastics more flexible and harder to break. In several studies over the last two decades, they have been shown to disrupt the operation of male hormones like testosterone and have been linked to genital birth defects in male infants. Sources of Pthalates to avoid are Shampoos, Colognes/Perfume, Deodorant, Hair Spray, Body Lotion, Makeup, Glade Plug-ins and other Air Fresheners. [15]

For a lot of modern men, masculinity has been getting attacked by Nivea, L’Oreal, Garnier and all the other cosmetic and beauty houses trying to convince men that they need to look young, fresh and healthy like women. [16]

5. Foods

Soy

Soy is high estrogen food. Excess estrogen levels in man body causes enlargement of breast tissue, water retention, female pattern fat deposition and mood swings. Soy also decrease testosterone levels. [17]

Cow milk

Consumption of dairy products can lower testosterone in men, have ‘feminising’ effect [18]

Meat Dairy and Eggs:

Meat, dairy and eggs are another major source of estrogen in our diet that cause feminising effect on man… [19]

6. Government Laws

Seventy-six percent of rape charges are false. Many women file false rape cases after a consensual relationship goes sour. The Delhi Commission for Women reported that 53% of the rape cases filed between April 2013 and July 2014 were found to be false. [20, 21]

Section 498A which deals with anti-dowry provisions had acquired the reputation of being the most abused law in the history of Indian jurisprudence. As per this section, the law allowed the immediate arrest of those named in a complaint. Accordingly, 2.7 million people, including 650,000 women and 7,700 children, were arrested between 1998 and 2015 due to this Section. (The Apex court repealed the automatic arrest provisions) [22]

7. Toxic Feminism

Women keep buying into the Feminist lie that “women don’t need men” and “men represent the evil patriarchy.” More men are reluctant to get the marriage. Women have a very difficult time finding a suitable men to marry.

150 Men Took a Dip in Ganga to Rid Their ‘Evil’ Wives of ‘Toxic Feminism’ [23]

The rise of School shootings, violence and sexual violence are merely the symptoms of a much greater problem – the epidemic of fatherlessness and The War on Masculinity. [24]

Here is the proof that how feminists are feminising man:

Wake up man…

All the Men need to wake up to these harsh realities….

Realise this…

Suppression of masculinity tantamount to suppression of your essence and obviously you end up with far reaching consequences… .

Now!

We come to the crux of article…

i.e 4 masculine traits every man should have….

It is in this context we are trying to distill the 4 essential qualities of jagan mohan reddy on successful completion of Praja sankalpa yatra…

4 Jagan Reddy Masculine Traits Every Man Should Have

First have glance of the following stats about jagan reddy more than one year long padayatra …According to Hindu [34]

Jagan reddy praja sankalpa yatra stats:

  • Covered the distance of 3,648 km over a span of 341 days
  • Crisscrossed 2,516 villages in 231 Mandal headquarters, 54 Municipalities and 8 cities across
  • Directly interacted with 1.25 crore people and listened patiently to the woes of farmers, women, students and the unemployed.
  • Addressed 124 public meetings.

Imagine for a moment!

What it would be like if you are walking for a distance of 3,648 km for almost one year…

I am asking younger men?

Can you walk like jagan mohan reddy?

Don’t say that “why I should walk?”

Just imagine walking …

I don’t say it is impossible…

But certainly I can say without 4 masculine traits one can’t venture into such a mammoth incredible journey….That brings me to introduce to the 1st masculine trait every man should have…

1st masculine trait: Intention

The sperm is nothing but essence of you…

Young men… Warning…

If you are alpha man your sperm would be alpha sperm…

If you are beta man your sperm would be beta sperm…

Consider this truth…

What alpha sperm do when it is ejaculated into the women’s cervix?

The intention of sperm is very clear.

Its goal is to swim towards the egg in the fallopian tubes…

It will not stop in between… because it knows where it wants go…

The sperm is persistent and it doesn’t stop even when there are obstacles in its path…

The sperm that penetrates the egg has to compete with billions of other sperms to achieve its goal…

Jagan Reddy intention is clear…

The intention of Jagan mohan Reddy is to become the Chief Minister of Andhra Pradesh…

Since his goal is very big he undertook such gigantic task of walking over 3500 km and meeting the people to understand their problems…

My Intention is to help dalits to become entrepreneurs…

The reason I have quit the so-called lucrative Govt job in is to become an entrepreneur. My real intention and life’s mission is to help 1,00,000 dalits to become businessmen. It is like learning car driving so that I can teach others how to drive a car.

I strongly believe that things are changed and every dalit have an opportunity to grow big. Digitalisation and e-commerce are the two factors that enable this transformation. I want every potential dalit to use this opportunity to create employment for fellow humans and create wealth for the nation rather than settling for jobs using reservation.

I am determined to fulfill my life mission of making 1,00,000 dalits as businessman. If I die without fulfilling my mission, I wish my sons continue this mission and complete it.

Every man should have Intention to do BIG

So every man should have intention of doing something that influences or the help other people…without clear intention of doing something the masculine energy will decline and it will have its consequences on you. You are born to be a man. Manliness doesn’t come without being a man.

And that is why…

Intention to do big is the first step towards becoming an alpha man…

But here is the thing…

Having clear intention is not enough….

You should put your intention into action… so your second masculine trait is action.

2nd masculine trait: Action

I experientially know…

Many men are too timid to express their masculinity…

Most Men are “Stuck in their childhood”

In fact I must say many men are stuck in their childhood patterns… they may be adults but if you observe their behavior and mental patterns it shows that they are reluctant to grow up…

What does “action” mean?

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Let me explain the word “action” to understand its intricacies…

Action means assertiveness

An assertive man influence the society but don’t allow the society to influence him… in other words whatever society throws at him he doesn’t get overwhelmed.

The masculine man moves the environment rather than being moved by the environment.

Action means giving

The masculine man doesn’t seek validation from people rather he support and validate other people…so he’s giver not that taker…

Action means forward moving energy

Action requires a forward moving energy. Once he knows where he wants to go he move in this direction and does not allow hurdles deter him.

Jagan reddy PSY is an Action with clear Intention

Jagan mohan Reddy pada yatra have all the qualities we have discussed so far…He faced many obstacles including an attempt on his life.

My struggle during last 10 years is an Action with clear intention

During last 10 years good job offers come to me but I did not change my path…I preffered to endure poverty and acute cash flow problems. Because my intention is clear…

So intention and action are the key foundations of transforming into a masculine man (we popularly rever masculine man as alpha man)…

Now we get into the third masculine trait…

3rd masculine trait: Compete

When you aim for big thing in your life you are bound to face competition…as we have discussed the sperm also compete with billions of other sperms to penetrate into the egg.

There is always a fight

There is always fight

The reason man have high levels of testosterone is to fight….otherwise what will you do with their testosterone … if you don’t compete your testosterone levels will decline because you’re not using it…(Use it or lose it law)

Competing means defeating the competition

Jagan mohan reddy defeated the age old congress party mentally by grabbing congress cadre into his party…

The so called powerful congressmen could do nothing…They are the mute spectators against the onslaught of jagan reddy master strategy…

Jagan mohan reddy when he undertook praja saklapa he is facing serious confrontation with the ruling party…23 MLAs of YSR party switched their loyalty under the influence of the ruling party..

As a retaliation jagan formulated a simple and yet powerful strategy

As a result…

He is able to break down the ruling coalition into 3 pieces with his combating strategies. He forced the ruling TDP party to break away from BJP. He also successfully did it with jana sena party.

Weakening the competition is vital part of war strategy. Jagan reddy did it meticulously. He fully knows that without doing this success is not easy for him. He learned this bitter lesson during 2014 elections.

All the people are witnessing praja sankalpa yatra. But many people didn’t realises even today the war strategy he employed to break the ruling party.

While the ruling party is trying to weaken jagan reddy party by enticing his MLAs, jagan reddy could achieve this with a simple strategic shift.

Remember…

You need to do two things to be successful in your life..

Winning the heart of people whom you want to love / serve…

The Second thing is defeating the competitor / opponent …

Without doing these things you can’t achieve success…

This is so in all the aspect of man’s life…

Anyway, let me share my experience also…

When I was CTO saroor nagar I have dealt with a big industrial group who tried to weaken me. I took that as an opportunity and completely exposed their misdeeds . In fact the then Commissioner recognised my ability to handle big people and rewarded me with the Vizag posting…

When I was Assist commissioner I have investigated a big public sector company with the same spirit of fighting big…Intention to beat the big competition activate your innate competitive abilities…

Every man is endowed with competing powers

Every man is endowed with the fighting spirit of competing, out playing, out maneuvering others if he pays enough attention on the weakness of the opponent.

Every man body is designed to fight because it is survival instinct given to the man by the nature. If you remain in comfort zones without facing any life risks you lose this innate man alone ability.

It may look scary but it is the life game you have to play to enjoy this life.

That brings me to introduce the final jagan reddy masculine trait….

4rth masculine trait: Influence

Just swimming and competing with other sperms doesn’t serve any purpose unless the hero sperm influence the egg and penetrate into it…

Here the key is the ability to influence.

How do you influence the people…

Simple…

Listen agree and find the solution

The Alpha man listen the people….Understand their problems… Think of true solution to the problem…

The Beta man reluctant to listen to the people….Try to divert people from their problems or manipulate their minds.

Manipulation is not true influence.

Because it short lives…

Manipulation doesn’t create lasting impact on the minds of people…

Here is the Jagan story again…

How jagan reddy influenced people

Allowing the people to meet him and listening to them is the style of Jagan mohan reddy in his pada yatra that you couldn’t see in other parties.

3 Steps to influencing the people

Listening, understanding and acknowledging the problem build the rapport. Building the rapport is the first step in influencing the people. Giving a sense of hope is the second step of influencing the people. Providing the solution to the problem is the final step of influencing the people…

Building world class structures may influence few people. But what masses want is the solution to their daily problems…

I think the ruling party priorities are misplaced that lead to lopsided development…If the ruling loses elections the cause could be inability to influence the people.

Every politician wants to become MLA or MP … CM or PM…

Every politician has intention of becoming a leader…every politician do his best to compete with the opposition….

But most politicians don’t know how to influences the masses…and it is here Jagan Mohan reddy have an edge…

Jagan Reddy certainly influenced the people…

Otherwise teens don’t compete to get selfie from him…

Various other sections of the people don’t meet him personally with representations.

People don’t flock to his meetings…

Stability and exuberance is the key to influence the people

Jagan Reddy demonstrated extraordinary stability and exuberance

Like the other party leaders he never loses the cool with people. He demonstrated warmth and gives them a sense of hope….

These are the qualities required to influence the people….

Showing power and ego does not influence the people…

I am a businessman. I know this truth experientially…

Every businessman strives to know everything about his customer emotional needs. Marketing is nothing more than meeting emotional needs of the people

One of our top blog namely FightYourInfetility.Com achieved nearly 2 million page views. My Content has been shared more than 1,00,000 times all across the social Channels.

The very purpose of this article is to influence all the men and empower them.

The ability to understand and meet the emotional needs of people is true leadership skill. Any man who nurture and develop this skill can influence the people.

This is a must have skill to young men also…

If you are a man dating with a woman the ability to influence play a key role in winning the heart of hot women.

Another secret is revealed here…

Every woman secretly likes alpha man because they feel secure and joyful with them. Women ignore beta man because beta men always nervous and lacks confidence. Women don’t feel secure in their presence. Only hardcore feminists like beta man because their goal is to suppress the masculinity.

And that is why…

Every man should hone the skill of influence to release their masculine energies.

To sum up…

Jagan reddy demonstrated all the four masculine traits with depth and dimension…If he becomes CM that can be attributed these 4 masculine qualities…

And finally…

Becoming a man is the life long skill

Every man should realize this fact and start embracing manhood.

There is never too late to become alpha man

Here is the ultimate secret…

When you start expressing your masculinity everything will fall in place in your life… your health, wealth, relationships, success…

The reason is simple…

You are not expecting things to happen…you are making things happen… things will bound to happen sooner and that is the law of life…

Bottom line

Whether you are Politician, Bureaucrat, Entrepreneur or whatever you are doing…

You can’t feel stability or live joyful life without embracing and embodying these 4 masculine traits we have discussed so far…

Low testosterone levels a sign of timid life. Low testosterone levels surge stress chemicals like adrenaline and deprive you of all the healthy chemicals like dopamine, endorphins, serotonin and oxytocin.

Living in comfort or safe zone tantamount to suppressing your innate masculine energy.

Suppressing your masculine energy is the root cause of anxiety and frustration in your life; It is like slow suiciding.

Compulsions and addictions without any purpose or direction in the life is the sign of suppressed masculine energy..

We call them as BETA MAN

Conclusion:

You just learned how to be a truly successful man. And that means you can now start expressing the 4 masculine traits.

To that end, let’s quickly recap what you learned in this article

  • You learned why you must have a clear intention to do something. Because this sets your masculine energy into the motion…
  • You found out that you must act on your intention. It is here your testosterone levels start rising in your body…
  • You have discovered that facing the competition is key to develop the skills persistence, tenacity and strategy to beat the competition.
  • And finally you figured out the real secret of success…i.e. the ability to influence the people with your leadership skills…

I hope this article is truly transformative because its based on facts and experiential truth…

In view of this I want you to put this knowledge into action right away.

Because the sooner you do, the sooner you’ll start enjoying manliness and the benefits it bring in the form of success, health and wealth..

Let go of the past…

Decide to Transform into an Alpha Man…

Start with Small Changes in Your Life…

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Pros and Cons of Quitting Group-1 Job

I quit Group-I job on 23-12-2008
So this is the 10th year…

Recently I made an introspection about;
What I have done?
What I have learned?
What I wanted to do here after?

Here are the pros and cons of quitting my job;

Pros of Quitting the Job

Personality Change

Freed from hypocrisy ( the reason I quit the job)

Freed from hypocrisy ( the reason I quit the job)

Freed from restricted life ( I can live my life the way I like)

Freed from restricted life ( I can live my life the way I like)

Enjoying the ultimate lifestyle business (what to work; when to work; where to work is under my control)

Enjoying the ultimate lifestyle business (what to work; when to work; where to work is under my control)

Able to judge the people clearly (failure teach more about the people and life)

Able to judge the people clearly (failure teach more about the people and life)

Becoming mentally tough (otherwise I may not be survived)

Becoming mentally tough (otherwise I may not be survived)

Becoming more authentic ( otherwise I couldn’t convince my debtors)

Becoming more authentic ( otherwise I couldn't convince my debtors)

Freed from fear of survival (because I can make a living with a laptop and internet connection)

Freed from fear of survival (because I can make a living with a laptop and internet connection)

Freed from fear of diseases (being a health blogger)

Freed from fear of diseases (being a health blogger)

Impact on Family;

Relationship with my wife and children deepened ( because we stood together in tough times)

Relationship with my wife and children deepened ( because we stood together in tough times)

Shown the better (modern) path of living to my children ( what else can bring this happiness)

Shown the better (modern) path of living to my children ( what else can bring this happiness)

Eldest son is on the path of becoming blogger (while preparing for civil services)

Eldest son is on the path of becoming blogger (while preparing for civil services)

Youngest son became financially independent as a blogger (financial problems matured him fast)

Youngest son became financially independent as a blogger (financial problems matured him fast)

New Professional Skills Learned;

Mastered the skill of blogging ( a simple skill any one can learn and say goodbye to 10 to 5 jobs) Mastered the skill of blogging ( a simple skill any one can learn and say goodbye to 10 to 5 jobs)

Become expert in article writing and book writing ( This is information marketing in mobile economy)Become expert in article writing and book writing ( This is information marketing in mobile economy)

Become expert in writing sales copy / Ad copy ( backbone of any business success)

Become expert in writing sales copy Ad copy ( backbone of any business success)

Becoming successful as e-marketer and e-entrepreneur ( The ultimate lifestyle business)

Becoming successful as e-marketer and e-entrepreneur ( The ultimate lifestyle business)

Cons of Quitting the Job

Assets sold away for sustaining business  (Assets can be acquired. What is the big deal?)

Assets sold away for sustaining business (Assets can be acquired. What is the big deal)

End up in some Debts ( Soon start payments as cash flow is becoming positive now)

End up in some Debts ( Soon start payments as cash flow is becoming positive now)

Relationships broken (when money and power is visible relations will be build again)

Relationships broken (when money and power is visible relations will be build again)

Disconnection with colleagues ( This blogging is to connect )

Disconnection with colleagues ( This blogging is to connect )

Credit worthiness dipped ( that is why I am bootstrapping to scale my business)

Credit worthiness dipped ( that is why I am bootstrapping to scale my business)

Three Life lessons learned

1. Money and Power will build or break the relationships (Nothing else)

Money and Power will build or break the relationships (Nothing else)

2. Adversity teaches all the life lessons needed to survive and succeed. (If the dream is intense)

Adversity teaches all the life lessons needed to survive and succeed. (If the dream is intense)

3. The life of authenticity is most euphoric and liberating.(one has to experience this )

The life of authenticity is most euphoric and liberating.(one has to experience this )

Here is my business model 

1. Doing  Online Business ( This is to transform my Ideas and expertise Into profits by providing solutions to problems through e-books, videos, books, courses, webinars) Eg: fightyourinfertility.com (This is my peripheral business. This is to acquire and update online skills so as to serve small businesses) 
2. Help small businesses and services to grow online through my infoproducts, webinars, consultation and done-for-services. ( This is my core business in coming days

Where I stand today; 

Yes! I am SC. (This factor  continues to be a major mental factor impacting my life) 
Yes! My mother disowned me and transferred all the assets to my brother without my knowledge (It has taken considerable time to recover from this shock. But, today, I don’t have any bitter feeling towards her.  She acted under the compulsion from my brother) 
Yes! I am imperfect. (that is why I failed many times ) 
Yes! I am in debts. (All my debtors are so kind and therefore occupied place in my heart) 
Yes! I am telugu medium student (This is still a mental block in content writing) 
But! I have written hundreds of thousands articles. 
But! I have created over hundred short reports and infoproducts. 
But! I have influenced the people with my content and communication skills 
(The combined readership of all my blogs is 4 millions page views.)
(Nearly 2 lakhs people liked or shared my content in social media) 
But! I am absolutely healthy. (because meditation and creative work becomes part of my life) 
Now the time has come;
To grow my online business and help small businesses and services to grow online in a big way.
  
 
 
 
 

The Formula to Cure Chronic Disease (99% of People Don’t Know This)

You feel anxious most of the time. Your spouse is concerned about your chronic disease. And your doctor says you must control your stress…

That being the situation…

Imagine how you’ll feel when you’re free from your chronic disease! No more food restrictions. No more regular checkups. No more medicine or injections. At last, you’ll be able to play with your kids; Spend time with family and friends without any anxiety or frustration. Finally, you’ll be able to enjoy your life completely.

Yes! It is true.

Without health, everything else is redundant in life.

What If, I could reveal you the simple formula to get rid of your chronic diseases forever, would you be excited?

First and foremost what is the chronic disease

Chronic disease is disease that persists for a long period of time.

Chronic Disease and Modern Treatment

Modern doctors says “there is no cure for chronic diseases. only symptoms can be managed“.

What they are saying is the half truth.

Yes, it is true when they say “western medicine can’t cure chronic diseases.”

But it is not true when they say  “there is no cure for chronic diseases.”

What it implies is this.

You can cure chronic diseases. ( There are many ways to cure chronic disease)

In this blog post, you will know this truth.

Here is the list of common chronic diseases.

  • Arthritis
  • Asthma
  • Cancer
  • Diabetes
  • Heart Disease
  • Obesity
  • Osteoporosis

Formula to cure chronic disease

Today I am not elaborating on how to cure chronic diseases. However, I am revealing a simple and yet a powerful formula that is based on science.

Understanding and applying this formula in your life will help you get rid of all your chronic diseases and prevent life-threatening diseases…

Since this formula is based on scientific principles, you can apply this formula right from today.

First, you understand these facts…

More RaD and less FoF result in Health

  • At any point of your time you live in one of the two states. One is FoF (fight or flight) state and the other one is RaD ( rest and digest) state.
  • More FOF and less RaD result in disease. More RaD and less FoF result in Health.

Now! Let me reveal the scientific formula to cure chronic diseases (99% people don’t know this yet)…

Reduce FoF + Enhance RaD  = Cure chronic disease

The formula to cure chronic diseases;

Formula to Cure Chronic Disease

Reason why life long suffering;

Enhance FoF + Reduce RaD = Lifelong chronic disease

Let me elaborate the scientific basis behind these formulas.

Fight or flight state is caused by everyday stress and it looks like this.

  • Stress state >
  • Your body releases stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol >
  • You are in FoF state >
  • Stress hormones cause catabolic reactions in your body>
  • Catabolic reactions will break down your body systems>
  • Dysregulation of testosterone hormone plus other hormonal imbalances in males / Estrogen and Progesterone imbalance plus other hormonal imbalances in females>
  • Prolonged FoF state coupled with less RaD State result in chronic disease.

If you’re suffering from the chronic disease you are in a state of more FoF and less RaD state. (More Degeneration of systems and organs + Less Regeneration of your systems and organs).

So obviously unless you inverse More FoF and less RaD sate, you cannot restore gut imbalance and hormonal imbalances. You can’t cure your chronic disease.

Rest and digest state and placebo response looks like this…(More Regeneration of systems and organs + Less Degeneration of your systems and organs)

  • Doing things that bring Joyfulness >
  • Your body releases endorphins, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin >
  • You are in RaD state >
  • Happy hormones cause anabolic reactions in your body>
  • Anabolic reactions will repair and renovate your body systems and organs>
  • Restoration of testosterone hormone plus other hormone balance in males / Estrogen and Progesterone balance plus other hormonal balance in females>
  • Prolonged RaD state (with Less FoF State) result in the cure of chronic disease.

Here is the proof:

I hope you understood the formula…

Are you still sceptical?

O.K…

Let me disclose some shocking facts…

  • Your body has inherent self healing capacity (Drug companies don’t want you to know this fact)
  • Many drugs and conventional treatments elicit little more than a placebo response with side effects. Nothing else. (This is what modern treatment can do)
  • You can wake up the self healing capacity of your body with RaD activities (ie Feeling good by doing good deeds and avoiding bad deeds)

Proof of scientific studies:

Placebo effects can imitate the actions of real painkillers and promote the endogenous release of opioids and nonopioids in humans.

Unlock the Healing Power of You just feeling good

Proof of what experts are saying…

“The living body is intelligent beyond our understanding; it is incomprehensibly intelligent.”~ Harvey Diamond, author of Fit for Life, which has sold 14 million copies

I continue to be amazed by our bodies’ ability for self-repair. … Our bodies want to be healthy, if we would just let them. That’s what these new research articles are showing: Even after years of beating yourself up with a horrible diet, your body can reverse the damage, open back up the arteries-even reverse the progression of some cancers. Amazing! So it’s never too late to start exercising, never too late to stop smoking and never too late to start eating healthier. – Michael Herschel Greger is an American physician, author, and professional speaker on public health issues

“Your body is a self-healing organismLissa Rankin, MD, New York Times bestselling author of Mind Over Medicine

You don’t need treatment. The fever, inflammation, coughing, etc., constitute the healing process. Just get out of their way and permit them to complete their work. Don’t try to ‘aid’ nature. She doesn’t need your puny aid—she only asks that you cease interfering.” ― Herbert McGolfin Shelton was an American naturopath, alternative medicine advocate, author

Hope you got the message…

So what to do to cure the chronic disease?

Simple!

Reduce FoF State and Enhance RaD State…

And that’s it.

Now You got the formula to cure your chronic disease.

Last but not least!

This is the only way you can restore your gut imbalance and correct other hormonal irregularities. This is the only sure path to cure chronic disease.

The bottom line…

Feeling good is the key to health. Not the other way round. This is not a religious or spiritual philosophy. This is based on science.

Are you excited?

If so please share this article so that others also benefit from this.

If you share this…You are Reducing FoF State and Enhancing RaD State right this moment…

Thank you for taking your valuable time and reading my post.

Ben Praveen

10 Health Lessons I Want Everyone to Know

I am a health blogger for the past five years.

I have written hundreds of health related articles for my blogs.

One of the top blog namely FightYourInfetility.Com achieved nearly 2 million page views.

Take a look at the following graphic in which you can see Google data.

Fightyourinfertility.com Google Analytics

As I write articles regularly I have been researching about all the health topics.

In fact, it becomes an obsession for me to figure out the root cause of chronic diseases. The reason being, without understanding the root cause you cannot fix it correctly.

This is the malady of modern medicine. For all the chronic diseases the treatment is goes on till the last breath. They Simply say that “there is no permanent cure for the chronic diseases”.

If you also think that chronic diseases like heart disease, stroke, cancer, type 2 diabetes, and arthritis require life long treatment then you may be surprised to discover that you’ve been misinformed. The truth is that you don’t need treatment at all. what You need to do is the restoration of the balance. The root cause of all the chronic diseases is the imbalance in the gut. Restoration of gut imbalance is the real cure for chronic diseases.

The good news is that it’s not too late to protect your health, turn things around, start doing right things with better information. And it starts right here since you’re about to discover 10 health lessons I want everyone to know.

10 Health Lessons I want Everyone to Know

 

I want every one of you to reflect on these health lessons regularly.

ATTENTION

I am going to write blog posts on health topic hereafter in this blog.

So watch out this blog and take full advantage of my experience as a health blogger.


Note: Based on the above 10 health lessons I am writing a book with the following title;

“How to Get Pregnancy When Your Doctor Is Helpless”

Your Personal Guide to Correct Hormonal Imbalance and Reverse Infertility Naturally Following Latest Scientific Studies

This book will be released and available to everyone in the next week…

Why I Continue With Loss Making Business

Do you have these questions unanswered…

Why do you quit a top government job?

Why I do you still continue this business that is sustaining losses for the last four years?

Is it your opinion?

You did wrong quitting government job without a proper business plan…

You’re investing lots of money on a hopeless business….

Unanswered questions

These are the questions everyone asks me directly, indirectly or silently….

If I want to answer these queries it takes a whole lot of my time and yet my answer may not satisfy you…

Yesterday I happened to see a video that I think will probably answer the above questions and satisfy you…

Watch this video now….

Hopefully you got the answers…

How I made stress my friend

Yesterday while I am routinely browsing YouTube. One video come to my notice.

As it is relating to stress I watched it…

The essence of video is as follows;

  1. Stress will lead to heart attack if you think that stress is an enemy
  2. Stress is healthy if you think that it is a friend.
  3. Stress brings courage in you if you treat it as your friend.
  4. Stress result in reaching out to care givers if you are positive.

All the above findings are based on a scientific research.

Now watch the video below:

Now consider my situation…

Stress resulted in hyperactivity. I’m tirelessly working to make my fertility blog a success. You can see the results in a few days.

My stress resulted in Ben blog

Through Ben blog I’m reaching out to every member of the family…

Through my “unwanted child” blog posts I am cleansing my emotional body

I’m feeling light day by day and my productivity improving substantially.

The sharpness of my focus enhances and creative ideas coming out like a flow of water…

Would you accept that I made stress my friend…

This is the essence of the video you have just seen…

Remember!

It is based on scientific research

The bottom-line!

Stress is good if you think positively…

So Make your stress as your friend…

You become healthy

It bring change in your life…

I let myself FAIL

2 years of “I shouldn’t fail”

I have been trying not to fail for the last two years.…

I always feel stuck before the computer…

No outing, no walking, no recreation, no functions, no shopping………………………

Just sitting before the computer…

What I’m trying to do?

Protect myself from failure…

Here it looks like…

Every day I do something and expect good things will happen…

Days passes and I found something is missing…

Then I realize that and try to fix it and expect good things will come…

Again I see something is missing…

My life goes on like this…

This is one side of the coin…

The other side of coin looks like this…

When a month ends generally everybody feels happy because they will get their salaries…

But in my case whenever a month ends I feel anxiety, stress…

Because I have to pay rent, staff salaries and bank EMIs…

What I’m getting from the business does not meet these expenses…

Always there is a deficit and I need to fill it getting loan from different sources….

If I get the loan it is okay…

If I don’t get the loan then I have to face pressure….

This is how life is going on for last 2 years…

What happened yesterday?

Yesterday night as usually I came to office…

I could feel my heart beat once again…

This time it is beating with more than normal dosage…

I started thinking why it is behaving like this….

Then I have realized this month possibility of getting loans seems to be zero….

My mother is getting impatient that I have already told you in my blog post “My mother’s response doesn’t shock me

I have also told you there is no response from my family members in my blog post “Unwanted Brother

Sagar (Co brother) also could not give what he promised…

Based on the assurance given by my mother during last month I have promised everyone that I’ll pay this first week…

Now I don’t know how to respond to them….

Life seems to be crushing….

I’m trying to keep my heart calm but this time it is not responding to me…

Generally whenever I feel stress I meditate and in a few minutes I can feel peace immediately…

Since it is not responding to this time…

I let myself fail

I asked myself “what would happen if I don’t pay anything?

Probably house owner may ask us to vacate their house

Probably staff may say they can’t work anymore…

My banker may say we will recover the dues by selling the apartment which is under mortgage…

Then what happens?

Probably I have to shift to another small house….

Okay I have to disband this unit…

Then what happens…

I’m not getting any answer…

So even if I don’t get the money from our family members nothing will happen

Probably I’ll be working from a small house with low rent and make a living doing my current work…

And that’s all….

After the recovery I can make a new beginning

After the recovery I can pay the dues payable to the lenders…

So once I let myself fail by giving up everything my heart seems to be getting calm….

When I realized this is the worst thing that can happen then I started feeling empowered

I’m started feeling energized….

So today what I have discovered….

Uncertainty makes us fearful….

I realize the spiritual truth….

Life is uncertain

When mother carrying a child in her womb there is no certainty till she gives birth to the child…

When we put a seed in the soil there is no certainty until the seed sprouts…

A cine producer invests Crores of rupees and  there is no certainty getting profits till the movie releases..

Similarly an entrepreneur has to walk-through uncertainties till he sees success…

Unfortunately many entrepreneurs give up before they test the success…

Many people who struck to a menial job because the fear of uncertainty…

They stuck to the painful job because they feel certainty of income in their work…

The bottom-line is…

Life is a beautiful uncertainty…

When you will born uncertain…

When you will die uncertain…

The people who choose to face the uncertainty live a life of enterprising….

So the great people embrace certainty with grace….

The people who prefer certainty pretend to live the life but they are not living the true life…

Life is meant for growth and expansion….

Tree taught me a lesson

Every day I observe a tree near my house…

On the date of recent cyclone it tried it best to protect itself from the crush of the winds….

At last unable to face the speed of the wind all its branches are broken down….

Only the trunk is left…

But after three or four months now it is growing profusely with lots of small branches…

Every day I see this tree and feel so happy…

But when it comes to my life I have forgotten this life principle and today I realized this truth

What a sense of relief!!!

As I got a sense of relief I have shifted my focus on how to move on from now…

  1. Keep pursuing loan matter…
  2. Keep asking hand loan from family members….
  3. Focus on fight your infertility blog  till I see the success…